
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Happy Pi Day!!!

Friday, March 13, 2009
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Attachment, perspective, impermanence
Just think how happy you would be if you lost everything you have right now, and then got it back again.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Some good advice on happiness
So stop waiting until you finish school,
until you go back to school,
until you lose ten pounds,
until you gain ten pounds,
until you have kids,
until your kids leave the house,
until you start work,
until you retire,
until you get married,
until you get divorced,
until Friday night,
until Sunday morning,
until you get a new car or home,
until your car or home is paid off,
until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter,
until you are off welfare,
until the first or fifteenth,
until your song comes on,
until you've had a drink,
until you've sobered up,
until you die,
until you are born again
to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy...~ Author Unknown
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Radical reframing
On the day of their marriage, Yvonne and her husband were given a rare and gorgeous antique Hopi vase. After the ceremony someone carried the vase on a tray with too many other things, and dropped it. The bowl broke into many pieces.
"A perfect moment," she smiled. "The bowl was only whole for the ceremony."
Monday, March 09, 2009
Life
When I hear somebody sigh, "Life is hard," I am always tempted to ask, "Compared to what?"
Sunday, March 08, 2009
It's today

Men who treat women as helpless and charming playthings deserve women who treat men as delightful and generous bank accounts.
-- anonymous
Saturday, March 07, 2009
Unwanted guests
A young man named Nasreddin planted a flower garden, but when the flowers came up so did a great crop of dandelions among them. Wishing to eliminate the unwanted guests, Nasreddin consulted with gardeners near and far, but none of their solutions worked.
Finally, Nasreddin traveled to the palace of the sheik to seek the wisdom of the royal gardener himself. But alas, Nasreddin had already tried all the methods the kind old man recommended to him for eradicating such troublesome weeds.
Silently they sat together for a good long time. At last, the royal gardener looked at Nasreddin and said, "Well, then, the only thing I can suggest is that you learn to love them."
Friday, March 06, 2009
War, misery, beauty, goodness
I don't believe that the big men, the politicians and the capitalists alone are guilty of the war. Oh, no, the little man is just as keen, otherwise the people of the world would have risen in revolt long ago! There is an urge and rage in people to destroy, to kill, to murder, and until all mankind, without exception, undergoes a great change, wars will be waged, everything that has been built up, cultivated and grown, will be destroyed and disfigured, after which mankind will have to begin all over again.
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I don't think of all the misery but of the beauty that still remains.
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It's really a wonder that I haven't dropped all my ideals, because they seem so absurd and impossible to carry out. Yet I keep them, because in spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart.
Amazing words on compassion
My friend David in Montreal sent me the video posted below. As most of you know, I keep three blogs. One is on meditation (the one you're currently reading) and I strive to keep this one deliberately non-sectarian. Another is political and I maintain it as a private citizen. The third was initially intended for the spouses of Episcopal clergy in the Diocese of Oklahoma; it is about spiritual growth and reflection and draws mainly from the mystical and contemplative teachings of Christianity. I have had a hard time deciding where to post the Armstrong speech and so I'm using it on all three blogs.
It's a little over twenty minutes long but I'm sure you'll agree that it is well worth your time. And I think you will also see why it is appropriate for all three blogs:
Thursday, March 05, 2009
Something about risk
And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
Wednesday, March 04, 2009
The Patience of Ordinary Things
It is a kind of love, is it not?
How the cup holds the tea,
How the chair stands sturdy and foursquare,
How the floor receives the bottoms of shoes
Or toes. How soles of feet know
Where they’re supposed to be.
I’ve been thinking about the patience
Of ordinary things, how clothes
Wait respectfully in closets
And soap dries quietly in the dish,
And towels drink the wet
From the skin of the back.
And the lovely repetition of stairs.
And what is more generous than a window?
Tuesday, March 03, 2009
The real milestones
Sooner or later we all discover that the important moments in life are not the advertised ones, not the birthdays, the graduations, the weddings, not the great goals achieved. The real milestones are less prepossessing. They come to the door of memory unannounced, stray dogs that amble in, sniff around a bit and simply never leave. Our lives are measured by these.
Monday, March 02, 2009
Sunday, March 01, 2009
Blog recommendation
The person who created the blog made a skull a day for whole year and then started posting submissions from readers.
Go on over there and enjoy. The work is really quite fascinating.
Photo from Wikimedia Commons
Photo from Wikimedia Commons
Hopi pottery wedding vase
Photo from Wikimedia Commons
Photo from Wikimedia Commons
Image from Wikimedia Commons