Sunday, March 10, 2013
Friday, March 08, 2013
Overcoming despair
Today I want to let you know about a brief but very sensible article that will help when we feel a bit overwhelmed by the way the world is:
4 Ways to Overcome Despair
Here's the first way:
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4 Ways to Overcome Despair
Here's the first way:
1. Act. As Joan Baez once said, “Action is the antidote to despair.” If you despair about a problem or crisis in the world, do something. Choose actions that will lead to positive, sustainable, lasting solutions; that use your best skills; and that you enjoy doing. You’ll find friends and support in the process; see the positive effects of your efforts, and feel buoyed by the capacity of action to create change
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Monday, March 04, 2013
Saturday, March 02, 2013
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
No class today!
Hello, dear Center folks.
Due to the snow, Wednesday ongoing class is cancelled.
Stay safe!!
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Due to the snow, Wednesday ongoing class is cancelled.
Stay safe!!
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Thursday, February 14, 2013
Monday, February 11, 2013
Saturday, February 02, 2013
Saturday, January 26, 2013
Friday, January 04, 2013
Tuesday, January 01, 2013
Thoughts for the New Year
Hello, dear people.
I posted the following in January of 2005. I think it's time for a repeat. I am deeply convinced of these truths:
“Sometimes… a wave of light breaks into our darkness and it is as if a voice were saying, ‘You are accepted. You are accepted, accepted by that which is greater than you… Do not seek anything…; do not intend anything. Simply accept the fact that you are accepted.’”
As far as I’m concerned nothing else the great theologian Paul Tillich wrote comes close to the power, the startling, staggering, perfect truth of this famous “acceptance” statement. I sometimes think that if I were the rector of a parish I would be tempted to repeat this quote to the same people every Sunday for a year --- I think it is that important.
This experience of being accepted is not dependent on any belief system. But the question is sure to be asked: who or what does the accepting? I'd like to suggest that if you are a Buddhist you might experience being accepted by your own enlightened nature or by the Three Jewels. If you are agnostic or atheist you might experience being accepted by your own deepest, truest self - that self that is more real than your wounded self or your ego. If you are a traditional theist that acceptance may be experienced as coming from the Divinity of your understanding. Perhaps for everyone there can be the sense of being accepted by the Universe. In that regard there is a corresponding freedom when we have accepted that things are as they are. The story is told about Margaret Fuller who once exclaimed, "I accept the Universe!" It was Carlyle who then responded, "By God, she'd better."
All that being said I think it better to leave the "who" or "what" question alone. After all, Tillich did say "Do not seek anything... do not intend anything. Simply accept the fact that you are accepted." What would happen if you sat in meditation using this last sentence as your meditation support? In other words, just sit and let it be real and true that you are accepted? If we were to adopt this practice as a New Year's aspiration rather than taking on heroic resolutions I'm sure the freedom we would experience would be rich and profound.
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I posted the following in January of 2005. I think it's time for a repeat. I am deeply convinced of these truths:
“Sometimes… a wave of light breaks into our darkness and it is as if a voice were saying, ‘You are accepted. You are accepted, accepted by that which is greater than you… Do not seek anything…; do not intend anything. Simply accept the fact that you are accepted.’”
As far as I’m concerned nothing else the great theologian Paul Tillich wrote comes close to the power, the startling, staggering, perfect truth of this famous “acceptance” statement. I sometimes think that if I were the rector of a parish I would be tempted to repeat this quote to the same people every Sunday for a year --- I think it is that important.
This experience of being accepted is not dependent on any belief system. But the question is sure to be asked: who or what does the accepting? I'd like to suggest that if you are a Buddhist you might experience being accepted by your own enlightened nature or by the Three Jewels. If you are agnostic or atheist you might experience being accepted by your own deepest, truest self - that self that is more real than your wounded self or your ego. If you are a traditional theist that acceptance may be experienced as coming from the Divinity of your understanding. Perhaps for everyone there can be the sense of being accepted by the Universe. In that regard there is a corresponding freedom when we have accepted that things are as they are. The story is told about Margaret Fuller who once exclaimed, "I accept the Universe!" It was Carlyle who then responded, "By God, she'd better."
All that being said I think it better to leave the "who" or "what" question alone. After all, Tillich did say "Do not seek anything... do not intend anything. Simply accept the fact that you are accepted." What would happen if you sat in meditation using this last sentence as your meditation support? In other words, just sit and let it be real and true that you are accepted? If we were to adopt this practice as a New Year's aspiration rather than taking on heroic resolutions I'm sure the freedom we would experience would be rich and profound.
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Thursday, December 20, 2012
Done by choice
Here's a concluding remark by Laura Silva Quesada to a little article she wrote about meditation:
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Meditation is done by choice, and is vital for overall well-being. It improves the quality of your health, relationships, job performance, creativity, and problem solving ability. It also allows for you to make better choices and decisions. With meditation you can make the most of your life, and enjoy it, and those you share it with to the fullest.I really like the emphasis on choice. Choosing to meditate actually puts us more in touch with all our choices and is profoundly empowering.
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Tuesday, December 18, 2012
Dedication
This is dedicated to all who died in Newtown, Connecticut and all who mourn.
This may come across as a little sentimental to some and, frankly, I don't like the background music ---- and, yet, I think this woman has some good stuff to offer.
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This may come across as a little sentimental to some and, frankly, I don't like the background music ---- and, yet, I think this woman has some good stuff to offer.
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Tuesday, December 11, 2012
Silence in December
It's so hard to be silent this time of year, I know. It's really worth it, however. And because of all the frantic busyness, we need silence during this season more than ever:
Silence will help you avoid engaging in the games of competition and illusion that regularly seduce us in the outside world. Silence also helps you avoid distraction. It helps focus the busy mind---the mind that always has to be doing something, thinking something, the mind that always has to be otherwise engaged lest it become introspective and allow the soul's voice to override its own. The silence I am describing is a silence that you use to contain the grace you receive when you enter the Castle of your soul. This quality of silence allows you to engage in discernment. You carry this silence within you, even when you are with others. It allows you to hold your center amid the chaos of your life; it keeps you clear so that you do not do or say things you will regret or make decisions out of fear.
-- Carolyn Myss~~~
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Echoes of the spirit
A few years ago I gave myself a copy of Small Graces by Kent Nerburn for Christmas. Here's an excerpt that I stumbled upon not too long ago:
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I try always to look upon the world and the people I meet as echoes of my spirit. I know that if I am speaking with deceit, deceit will be echoed back to me . . . Likewise, if I find that I am constantly cheerful, full of brightness and hope, or deeply contemplative in the presence of a particular person, I know I am in the presence of a gracious spirit, and I am echoing the gift that is being given to me. It is as if the lesson of the echo contains the secret to understanding the space between us all.This is really valuable to ponder as we are starting to come to the close of the old year and soon will be welcoming the new.
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Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Monday, November 12, 2012
Thursday, November 08, 2012
Friday, November 02, 2012
Monday, October 29, 2012
Sunday, October 28, 2012
How to let go of misery
This is so, so true.
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Here is a formula for misery: resist a fact. Lament something that has occurred, dwelling on how it could have been otherwise.
If you were to altogether let go of resistance this moment, never to start it up again, by that single gesture, you’d liberate yourself from an enormous burden of suffering. Whatever time remains would feel conspicuously different from all that has preceded.
Allowing reality to be itself means you no longer blame life for your inner condition—or credit it, if things are going well. The potential exists to be at peace no matter what.
Confronted with reality, there are two options. You can acknowledge the fact of it, without resistance, or you can argue with it. When you oppose reality in any way, you’re taking on a terrible weight, which you then carry. It becomes a part of you. The burden wears you out.It's from a book entitled The Freedom of Being at Ease with What Is by Jan Fazier.
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Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Skillful means
This is similar to the observation that you can't pave the whole world with leather but you can wear sandals on your feet!
Sunday, October 14, 2012
Friday, October 12, 2012
Thursday, October 04, 2012
Something about Inner peace
Here is definitely the headline for the day (from the Washington Post, by the way):
Eckhart Tolle, meditation and the meaning and benefits of inner peace
Please note this excerpt:
Humanity, says Tolle, is faced with a choice of finding new ways to live together or continuing the cycle of violence and conflict. “If the structures of the human mind remain unchanged, we will always end up re-creating the same world, the same evils, the same dysfunction.”It's a short article. I do recommend clicking through!
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Thursday, September 27, 2012
Ten minutes to change your life (really)
I think I've posted this before but, if I have, it's been quite a long time. What I want to share with you is a practice the Dalai Lama recommends. It's quite beautiful:
1. Spend 5 minutes at the beginning of each day remembering we all want the same things (to be happy and be loved) and we are all connected to one another.I happened to find a handout with this exercise on it as I was cleaning house a while ago. I'm really glad I did.
2. Spend 5 minutes - breathing in - cherishing yourself and, breathing out - cherishing others. If you think about people you have difficulty cherishing, extend your cherishing to them anyway.
3. During the day extend that attitude to everyone you meet. Practice cherishing the simplest person (clerks, attendants, etc.) as well as the "important" people in your life; cherish the people you love and the people you dislike.
4. Continue this practice no matter what happens or what anyone does to you.
These thoughts are very simple, inspiring and helpful. The practice of cherishing can be taken very deep if done wordlessly, allowing yourself to feel the love and appreciation that already exists in your heart.
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Wednesday, September 26, 2012
Mindfulness, memory and reveiw
I found this exercise on "Meditation Station". This form of meditation makes a lot of sense. It is similar to Rob Nairn's instruction on "backtracking" that he talks about in Diamond Mind. I've also read about similar techniques offered by psychologists as a means of cultivating better memory. Let's all give this a try and see if it doesn't help us cultivate more ordinary mindfulness throughout our day!
Every night, before falling asleep, review the events of the day. Start with the first thing you remember and then continue as if you were watching a movie starring you. Try to remember everything. For instance, you may remember the alarm going off and you turning it off, pulling down the blanket and swinging your legs over the side of the bed to get out of bed. You may have then walked into the bathroom and washed up prior to getting dressed. Try to remember every detail as precisely as possible. Don't simply rehash how you usually go through your life's routine but rather note each nuance. An example would be if you dropped the bar of soap when you were washing up or heard alarming news over the radio while brushing your teeth. Try to recall how you reacted physically, mentally, and emotionally to every event of the day.
When you first try this technique, you may be amazed at how little you can recall. It may become obvious that you can easily recall highly emotional times like when you had an argument with a co-worker but you may not be able to remember anything about how you got to work. Similarly, if you had an accident in your car on the way to work, the events of that incident may be all you can remember. Anything that happened at work would be a blur.
The more you do this "review of the day", the more you will start paying attention to your life as it takes place and the more you will be able to remember about the events that transpired. We all have a tendency to not pay anything but the most minimal attention to the here and now and instead spend our time rehashing the past and fantasizing about the future. This meditation technique can return our awareness of the present, which is the only time reality takes place, as well as bring an excitement and enthusiasm to our life. Think about a baby who is so amazed and fascinated with the newness of everything that occurs in every moment. We should be experiencing at least that exquisite a response to our moment-to-moment existence because each moment is absolutely unique and intriguing and since we are adults, we can ponder the remarkable way we are reacting to each event we experience physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
When we can pay attention to our life with a baby's intensity, we will also find that when we do our daily life review, our mind will replay it in a minute detail and completeness as if we had put our inner VCR on fast forward. In just a few minutes, we will be able to see every event that took place in the previous sixteen hours. This will occur because at this stage of our consciousness's evolution, our mind will be a tool we can use as reliably and more easily than any computer.
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Every night, before falling asleep, review the events of the day. Start with the first thing you remember and then continue as if you were watching a movie starring you. Try to remember everything. For instance, you may remember the alarm going off and you turning it off, pulling down the blanket and swinging your legs over the side of the bed to get out of bed. You may have then walked into the bathroom and washed up prior to getting dressed. Try to remember every detail as precisely as possible. Don't simply rehash how you usually go through your life's routine but rather note each nuance. An example would be if you dropped the bar of soap when you were washing up or heard alarming news over the radio while brushing your teeth. Try to recall how you reacted physically, mentally, and emotionally to every event of the day.
When you first try this technique, you may be amazed at how little you can recall. It may become obvious that you can easily recall highly emotional times like when you had an argument with a co-worker but you may not be able to remember anything about how you got to work. Similarly, if you had an accident in your car on the way to work, the events of that incident may be all you can remember. Anything that happened at work would be a blur.
The more you do this "review of the day", the more you will start paying attention to your life as it takes place and the more you will be able to remember about the events that transpired. We all have a tendency to not pay anything but the most minimal attention to the here and now and instead spend our time rehashing the past and fantasizing about the future. This meditation technique can return our awareness of the present, which is the only time reality takes place, as well as bring an excitement and enthusiasm to our life. Think about a baby who is so amazed and fascinated with the newness of everything that occurs in every moment. We should be experiencing at least that exquisite a response to our moment-to-moment existence because each moment is absolutely unique and intriguing and since we are adults, we can ponder the remarkable way we are reacting to each event we experience physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
When we can pay attention to our life with a baby's intensity, we will also find that when we do our daily life review, our mind will replay it in a minute detail and completeness as if we had put our inner VCR on fast forward. In just a few minutes, we will be able to see every event that took place in the previous sixteen hours. This will occur because at this stage of our consciousness's evolution, our mind will be a tool we can use as reliably and more easily than any computer.
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Saturday, September 15, 2012
Dissolving fear
Did you ever think that gratitude could help dissolve fear? See what the wonderful website Gratefulness.org has to say about that:
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Peace, rightly understood, is inseparable from gratefulness. When we are grateful, we peacefully accept what is. As long as we are merely thankful, we give thanks for what we perceive to be beneficial, but there always remains the lurking fear that something harmful may come our way instead. To be grateful is more. It is our courageous trust that life itself – kind or harsh, happy or sad -- is good, if only we receive it as gift.I am in a daily state of gratefulness about meditation. The fact that I am a meditator, that I have had the wonderful good fortune to have received meditation instruction, fills me with gratitude. No matter what else is going on in our lives, no matter what challenges beset us, we can be grateful for our meditative practice.
The moment we trust in this truth, we are at peace. A person at peace will serve as an agent of peace in the world.
Activism for peace is necessary. Yet no matter how sincere and how admirable, it will have no effect unless our own heart is at peace, because gratefulness has made us fearless.
Since fear is at the root of all that is wrong with our world, we start healing the world by overcoming fear through gratefulness.
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Tuesday, September 04, 2012
This says it all, dear people. Really.
Right here:
Yes, in a way it sounds difficult. In another way, it sounds (is) so doable. So let us take heart!
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"See it clearly without judgement and let it go. Come back to the present moment. From now on until the moment of your death, you could do this."
-- Pema Chödrön
Yes, in a way it sounds difficult. In another way, it sounds (is) so doable. So let us take heart!
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Sunday, September 02, 2012
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Impermanence and harmony
(Photo from Wikimedia Commons)
I really do like the following by the great meditation teacher, Pema Chödrön:
"Impermanence is a principle of harmony. When we don't struggle against it, we are in harmony with reality."How very true.
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Friday, August 17, 2012
Important Announcement
This is for all Tulsa participants in the life of St. John's Center.
There will be NO Saturday morning class tomorrow. Instead all participants are urged to attend the talk given by Carter Phipps (brother-in-law of Center participant Tommi Cox-Phipps) at Fellowship Lutheran Church held at 9:30 a.m. (Fellowship Lutheran is on Sheridan between 61st and 71st beside the Valero gas station. The parking lot is in the back.)
This talk is sponsored by the Center and Carter particularly wanted to spend time with us. He is in town for a book signing at Barnes and Noble and also will be interviewed by Rich Fisher on Studio Tulsa.
Here's a bit about him:
Carter Phipps is an author, journalist, and leading voice in the emerging field of Evolutionary Spirituality. For the past decade, as executive editor of EnlightenNext magazine, he has been at the forefront of contemporary spiritual, philosophical, and cultural discourse, and his writings have played a key role in making important new thinking accessible to a wider audience.
You can read more right here.
There will be NO Saturday morning class tomorrow. Instead all participants are urged to attend the talk given by Carter Phipps (brother-in-law of Center participant Tommi Cox-Phipps) at Fellowship Lutheran Church held at 9:30 a.m. (Fellowship Lutheran is on Sheridan between 61st and 71st beside the Valero gas station. The parking lot is in the back.)
This talk is sponsored by the Center and Carter particularly wanted to spend time with us. He is in town for a book signing at Barnes and Noble and also will be interviewed by Rich Fisher on Studio Tulsa.
Here's a bit about him:
Carter Phipps is an author, journalist, and leading voice in the emerging field of Evolutionary Spirituality. For the past decade, as executive editor of EnlightenNext magazine, he has been at the forefront of contemporary spiritual, philosophical, and cultural discourse, and his writings have played a key role in making important new thinking accessible to a wider audience.
You can read more right here.
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Monday, August 13, 2012
Monday Meditation Picture Blogging
This is the Atlantic on the west coast of Ireland at Donegal. I have actually swum in the sea myself very close to where this picture was taken.
(Photo from Wikimedia Commons)
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Be like the sea
I found this in an article from the Hindustan Times:
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"The power to have courage to face life’s difficulties comes from positive thinking and doing good things. Meditation can boost this power. You have to be like the sea which accepts all the rivers without resistance. You ought to be dynamic and should be able to mould your attitude as demanded by any situation. That helps you stand upright in the toughest of times. Closely followed is the power to cooperate; you have to see others as your own kin."I really like that image of being like the sea. Wonderfully helpful.
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Saturday, August 11, 2012
Meditation for its own sake
I have so very much respect for this approach:
"Meditation is the only intentional, systematic human activity which at the bottom is about not trying to improve yourself or get anywhere else, but simply to realize where you already are.
"Perhaps its value lies precisely in this. Maybe we all need to do one thing in our lives simply for its own sake."
-- Jon Kabat-Zinn
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Wednesday, August 08, 2012
Sunday, August 05, 2012
Our pernicious attachment to feeling good
Here is an excerpt from Finding Meaning In the Second Half of Life: How to Finally, Really Grow Up by James Hollis:
"The central paradox of our current feel-good culture is that we grow progressively more and more uncertain and less and less persuaded that our lives really mean something. Feeling good is a poor measure of a life, but living meaningfully is a good one..."~~~
Saturday, August 04, 2012
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Recognizing gifts
I already posted the following over on facebook but I think it belongs here as well. Two powerful meditative principles, after all, are that we need to see our enemies as precious teachers and also that we practice gratitude to everyone.
Monday, July 23, 2012
Sunday, July 22, 2012
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Friday, July 13, 2012
Meditation headline of the day
Here you go:
Scientific evidence supports mindfulness practices
Here's a little snippet from the article:
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Scientific evidence supports mindfulness practices
Here's a little snippet from the article:
A new report by Dr. William Marchand of the George E. Wahlen veterans Affairs Medical Center and the University of Utah, Salt Lake City, reveals “mindfulness practices” including Zen meditation have shown benefits for patients with certain physical and mental health problems.
Mindfulness is described as "the practice of learning to focus attention on moment-by-moment experience with an attitude of curiosity, openness, and acceptance." Dr. Marchand reviewed published studies that examined the health benefits of these practices.Most of us who are aware of meditation at all have heard of this research before. But the more we reinforce what we already know, the more likely we are to be consistent in our practice.
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Thursday, July 12, 2012
Worthy of reflection
I guess the problem is that some people enjoy the feeling of self-righteousness more than peace of mind. Very sad.
Sunday, July 08, 2012
Thursday, July 05, 2012
Being where we are
Here's something I posted on facebook back in March.
This strikes me as quite an important consideration:
"How much of your life do you spend looking forward to being somewhere else?"
-- Matthew Flickstein
Have you ever thought how wonderfully satisfying life could be if we fully embraced being exactly where we actually ARE at any given moment?
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This strikes me as quite an important consideration:
"How much of your life do you spend looking forward to being somewhere else?"
-- Matthew Flickstein
Have you ever thought how wonderfully satisfying life could be if we fully embraced being exactly where we actually ARE at any given moment?
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Monday, July 02, 2012
Some truly excellent advice
It's very counter cultural, of course:
"Do not encumber your mind with useless thoughts. What good does it do to brood on the past or anticipate the future? Remain in the simplicity of the present moment."
-- Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche
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Thursday, June 28, 2012
Some mindfulness encouragement
Here's a re-post from a few years ago that I thought would bear repeating:
If you're constantly thinking about what you'd rather be doing—getting off work, driving a different car, or eating dessert, your mind is starving for mindfulness. So what? Well, if you're reading an instant message and talking on your cell phone while thinking about things you need to get at the store, you're not doing any of these things fully—and essentially, you're missing out on your own life.
The antidote? Mindfulness. Mindfulness is a quality you can cultivate in any situation—whether you're walking down the street or washing the dishes... In mindfulness meditation you stop the restlessness of your mind by focusing your undivided attention on whatever you're experiencing in the here and now. The simplest version involves simply focusing on your breath. By enhancing your awareness in this way, you calm your mind, experience life more fully, and bring new clarity of thought to any situation that comes your way.
The antidote? Mindfulness. Mindfulness is a quality you can cultivate in any situation—whether you're walking down the street or washing the dishes... In mindfulness meditation you stop the restlessness of your mind by focusing your undivided attention on whatever you're experiencing in the here and now. The simplest version involves simply focusing on your breath. By enhancing your awareness in this way, you calm your mind, experience life more fully, and bring new clarity of thought to any situation that comes your way.
Saturday, June 23, 2012
Friday, June 22, 2012
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Keeping calm
I do very much love all the spin-offs from the famous World War II "Keep Calm and Carry On" poster. Here's one that's great for us meditators!
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Monday, June 11, 2012
Sunday, June 10, 2012
Meditation and accomplishment
I have found this to be very true:
"Some people think that meditation takes time away from physical accomplishment. Taken to extremes, of course, that's true. Most people, however, find that meditation creates more time than it takes."
- Peter McWilliams
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Monday, June 04, 2012
Bringing mindfulness into just this moment
This is an excellent little video.
My only comment is that I would recommend lowering but not completely closing your eyes. There are many reasons for this approach rather than complete eye closure, the main ones being that closing the eyes makes it more likely that we'll go to sleep or slip into a trance.
My only comment is that I would recommend lowering but not completely closing your eyes. There are many reasons for this approach rather than complete eye closure, the main ones being that closing the eyes makes it more likely that we'll go to sleep or slip into a trance.
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Something we tend to forget
And it's so, so true:
"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."
-- Siddhārtha Gautama (the Buddha)
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Sunday, May 20, 2012
Meditation itself
I may well have posted this before here since it's a quotation with which I've long been familiar. Nevertheless, if I have, it's been a long time!
The following is quite wonderful and the first time I read it, I recognized the point made instantly (undoubtedly because of my experience as a musician):
The following is quite wonderful and the first time I read it, I recognized the point made instantly (undoubtedly because of my experience as a musician):
“We could say that meditation doesn't have a reason or doesn't have a purpose. In this respect it's unlike almost all other things we do except perhaps making music and dancing. When we make music we don't do it in order to reach a certain point, such as the end of the composition. If that were the purpose of music then obviously the fastest players would be the best. Also, when we are dancing we are not aiming to arrive at a particular place on the floor as in a journey. When we dance, the journey itself is the point, as when we play music the playing itself is the point. And exactly the same thing is true in meditation. Meditation is the discovery that the point of life is always arrived at in the immediate moment.”
-- Alan Watts
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Thursday, May 17, 2012
A patch of blue
Here's a visualization that will help us work skillfully with thoughts during meditation. It's found in Beginning Mindfulness by Andrew Weiss:
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One meditation teacher invites us to envision the true nature of our mind as a clear blue sky. Thoughts, feelings, sensations, and perceptions are clouds that come and go across the blue sky. Some clouds are white wisps, others dark gray thunderheads. Sometimes the clouds are few; sometimes they reach from horizon to horizon. Yet, however many clouds may obscure the blue sky, the blue sky is always there. Just as a small patch of blue often appears during a hurricane, the blue-sky true nature of our mind/heart can reveal itself through the clouds of thinking, feeling, and perceiving, no matter how dense they become.Envisioning our thoughts and feelings this way can help us let go of the impulse to try to control our mind. Control is not necessary because the blue sky is just there. We don't have to engineer it in any way.
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Saturday, May 12, 2012
Monday, May 07, 2012
Being generous toward each day
A friend of mine posted this on Facebook today and now I share it with you. It moves me very, very much and is, of course, wonderfully in keeping with meditative principles.
There is no going back
by Wendell Berry
No, no, there is no going back.
less and less you are
that possibility you were.
more and more you have become
those lives and deaths
that have belonged to you.
you have become a sort of grave
containing much that was
and is no more in time, beloved
then, now, and always.
and so you have become a sort of tree
standing over a grave.
now more than ever you can be
generous toward each day
that comes, young, to disappear
forever, and yet remain
unaging in the mind.
every day you have less reason
not to give yourself away.
There is no going back
by Wendell Berry
No, no, there is no going back.
less and less you are
that possibility you were.
more and more you have become
those lives and deaths
that have belonged to you.
you have become a sort of grave
containing much that was
and is no more in time, beloved
then, now, and always.
and so you have become a sort of tree
standing over a grave.
now more than ever you can be
generous toward each day
that comes, young, to disappear
forever, and yet remain
unaging in the mind.
every day you have less reason
not to give yourself away.
Saturday, May 05, 2012
Experience
Ah, yes. This is very, very true. And Archibald MacLeish was a poet and playwright I've long admired. He was also one of our truly great Librarians of Congress.
Friday, May 04, 2012
The whole of life
Oh, this is so, so true and something that is very important for us to understand:
"Meditation is not something that you practise for an hour or ten minutes and the rest of the day do your mischief. Meditation is the whole of life and that is the beauty of meditation, it is not something set aside, it covers and enters into all our activities and to all our thoughts and feelings. So it is not something that you practise or give attention to once a day or three times a day or ten times a day and the rest of the day live a life that is shoddy, neurotic, mischievous, violent."
-- Krishnamurti
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Tuesday, May 01, 2012
Sunday, April 29, 2012
Something profound about tea
Tea is often associated with meditation and so I offer you the following that I just discovered:
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When the news reporter said "Shopkeepers are opening their doors bringing out blankets and cups of tea" I just smiled. It's like yes. That's Britain for you. Tea solves everything. You're a bit cold? Tea. Your boyfriend has just left you? Tea. You've just been told you've got cancer? Tea. Coordinated terrorist attack on the transport network bringing the city to a grinding halt? Tea dammit! And if it's really serious, they may bring out the coffee. The Americans have their alert raised to red, we break out the coffee. That's for situations more serious than this of course. Like another England penalty shoot-out.-- Jslayeruk, as posted on Metaquotes Livejournal, in response to the July 2005 London subway bombings
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Thursday, April 26, 2012
Sacred Pause
I want to call your attention to an article entitled "Meditation In Action: Learning To Take A Sacred Pause" by Ronald Alexander. Here's an excerpt:
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Meditation in Action is at its core learning to take a mindful or sacred pause and self regulate the "fight or flight" aspect of your nervous system, which can effect positive changes in the neuronal pathways to the amygdala, the walnut-sized area in the center of the brain responsible for regulating emotions. When the amygdala is relaxed, the parasympathetic nervous system engages to counteract the anxiety response. Instead, it activates what we call the relaxation or healing response, when the heart rate lowers, breathing deepens and slows, and the body stops releasing cortisol and adrenaline into the bloodstream; these stress hormones provide us with quick energy in times of danger but have damaging effects on the body in the long term if they're too prevalent. In mindfulness you learn to slow down and to take your body's pulse.It's not a long article and so I recommend that you click through. A very helpful strategy for dealing with stress is also offered.
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Monday, April 23, 2012
A wonderful thing to say - to think
This:
"Even when I meet a stranger
Each time I have the same feeling:
'He is another member of my human family.' "
Really. Imagine being willing and then able to look at everyone in this way on a regular basis.
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"Even when I meet a stranger
Each time I have the same feeling:
'He is another member of my human family.' "
-- The Dalai Lama
Really. Imagine being willing and then able to look at everyone in this way on a regular basis.
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Saturday, April 21, 2012
My apologies
Sorry I haven't posted for a while, dear people. I've been down with a very unpleasant cold and cough.
Be back soon!
Be back soon!
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
A simple practice
Try simply using the mantra,
as a support for meditation. Very effective.
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"Rest the mind,"
as a support for meditation. Very effective.
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Monday, April 16, 2012
Sunday, April 15, 2012
Creations of the mind....
Oh, my. This is very powerful. It's worthy of being pondered for a long time:
See demons as demons: that is the danger.
Know that they are powerless: that is the way.
Understand them for what they are: that is deliverance.
Recognize them as your father and mother: that is their end.
Realize that they are creations of the mind: they become its glory.
When these truths are known, all is liberation.
See demons as demons: that is the danger.
Know that they are powerless: that is the way.
Understand them for what they are: that is deliverance.
Recognize them as your father and mother: that is their end.
Realize that they are creations of the mind: they become its glory.
When these truths are known, all is liberation.
-- Milarepa
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Friday, April 13, 2012
Sunday, April 08, 2012
Happy Easter!
Let the resurrection joy lift us from loneliness and weakness and despair to strength and beauty and happiness.
~Floyd W. Tomkins
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Thursday, April 05, 2012
Friday, March 30, 2012
What holds us back
This is quite straightforward isn't it? We would do well to heed the following advice:
“Meditation brings wisdom; lack of mediation leaves ignorance. Know well what leads you forward and what hold you back, and choose the path that leads to wisdom.”
-- The Buddha
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Thursday, March 29, 2012
The sense of sound as a support for meditation
I want to call your attention to a blog post entitled "Using the Senses to Relax the Mind". Here's an excerpt that rather wonderfully describes a meditative process that I introduce in Session 5 of the Foundations course:
I encourage everyone to try this if you haven't already. It's actually the method of meditation I personally use most frequently.
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For example, you can use the sounds around you as a focus during your meditation session. Simply allow your mind to settle for a few moments. Then tune into the sounds in your environment. The key is not to engage with the sounds, but to just place your attention lightly upon them. When thoughts and emotions arise, simple return your attention to the sounds you hear.
Right this moment, wind is rustling through the trees outside my window with brief interludes of silence. Often, we don’t hear the sounds around us because our mind is all churned up with thoughts and emotions or we are overly concentrated on a project. Consciously using the senses returns us to the present moment and helps us to relax our mind and let go of our worries.The writer quoted above is Sandra Pawula.
I encourage everyone to try this if you haven't already. It's actually the method of meditation I personally use most frequently.
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Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Monday, March 26, 2012
Awareness
So very beautiful:
The explanation is quite simple, isn't it? Deep awareness reveals to us that all things are connected. If we don't realize this, we weren't ever truly aware in the first place.
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"When you touch one thing with deep awareness, you touch everything."
~ Thich Nhat Hanh
The explanation is quite simple, isn't it? Deep awareness reveals to us that all things are connected. If we don't realize this, we weren't ever truly aware in the first place.
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Friday, March 23, 2012
Something about enlightenment
Well, this is certainly something to think about:
"Do not think you will necessarily be aware of your own enlightenment."
-- Dogen (13th century Japanese thinker)
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Wednesday, March 21, 2012
Physical experiences in meditation
I just found a page with a question addressed to Deepak Chopra.
Here's part of the question and part of the answer:
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Here's part of the question and part of the answer:
Q - During most meditations my right eye starts to water quite heavily. I cannot tell why this is happening.
A - During your meditations, if you notice your eye watering, simply observe that fact and return to the object or focus of your meditation without trying to figure out why it’s happening and without trying to stop it. Treat it as you would any other thoughts or sensations that arise during meditation – when you become aware that your awareness has drifted to your eye (or anything else), gently return your attention to the meditation object, whether that is your breath, a mantra, or a something else.
If you feel inclined, outside of your meditation practice, to explore what message your watering eye is sending you (if any), you could try journaling on that question. Ask your inner wisdom, “What is the message my eye is wanting to share?” and let yourself write freely, without censoring yourself. Given the common association of tears with sadness and release, it’s possible that you may be releasing some past grief or emotional upset, but without knowing your full story and health history, it’s not possible to say for sure. Just know that meditation is a valuable tool for releasing what no longer serves you.This is the sort of reflection question process we do here at St. John's Center. It can truly be very illuminating.
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